Love is not that which keeps you drowned in obsession, love is that which even after being obsessed lets you breathe out in the open sky, love is that which unites the souls? No, souls never have to unite, they remain one and get connected to each other, there is no need to join them, they are already connected, no one can separate true souls except by your thinking, excessive obsession kills people but the souls' obsession never decreases nor does it ever increase that it would kill you, it becomes bigger, you will have to do as the souls want, it is not in your control, being possessive in this, even if there is obsession then it is bigger than the souls, it is not according to your thinking, souls will establish there relationship with the person with whom soul's wants to stay, without any timings.